When I was in my teens and twenties, I did a lot of bench pressing. In other words, I was no different than most guys in that age bracket that have a one-dimensional fascination with this single power lifting movement. I seemed to have this instinctive belief that the more I could maximally press on this one upper body lift, the better I could ‘handle myself’ in any given physical situation. Of course, to get the maximum out of bench pressing, one needs to occasionally solicit the assistance of a spotter. Those final couple of reps in a 6-rep set or that uppermost poundage for a one-rep maximum are done much more safely and effectively with that nearly ubiquitous second person standing over the bar at the head of the bench. Just a slight nudge of assistance from above can get a bench presser past that invisible yet nasty sticking point that resides about halfway through the movement.
But what should we make of the occasional faked assistance? I’m sure that nearly everyone who has bench-pressed with regularity has experienced this. You’ve been cranking out the first few reps and you’re on those last couple that can make all the difference when – bam… you hit that sticking point. Your insightful spotter, however, realizes that you really have it in you to get that next repetition on your own: so what does he or she do? They stick their index finger under the bar and tap it with an upward motion – all the while giving you shouts of encouragement. Suddenly, seeing the "help" you’re getting from your "spotter", you push the weight right through that "sticking point" as if it existed only in your mind. Given that your spotter didn’t take any of the weight load away, a fractionally acknowledged awareness comes over you that says it was simply ‘all in your head’.
What does this say about human performance and potential? Doesn’t it cause you to wonder how many times in life you’re ‘stuck’, struggling with the ‘weight’ half-way off your chest and being held there by a ‘sticking point’ that’s really only an illusion of your subconscious mind? How many illusionary sticking points do you hit in your performance within other contexts? Do our limiting beliefs within specific performances affect our overall beliefs about our capabilities? What was revealed to me by the mysterious ‘index finger spot’ is what first gave me interest in how much of physique development, and performance in general, is a product of our innermost mind.
Here’s the key point: Either we deliberately create and embed empowering programs for our subconscious minds or they get created and embedded for us by default. Think about that the next time someone gives you only the illusion of assistance in the gym – and you smash through a sticking point that you realize, in hindsight, was only imagined.




